It’s all about respect
"mon frere"
Having
respect for others is difficult if you have no respect for yourself. you earn
respect if you respect yourself and the ones around you .
One
needs to pay attention when people disrespect you, and act on it. A person with
self respect doesn't tolerate others to treat them badly, and would rather not
associate with someone who is disrespectful. “that’s me” I can’t tolerate such
behaviours’, people who think that your life revolves around them.
This
might seem obvious, but there are many times when we accept being treated badly
(in both big and small ways) because we believe the person doesn't know any
better, or because we're not prepared to let that person go, or because we're
too down on ourselves to believe we deserve better. When someone doesn't give
you basic respect, you need to be able to say, in one way or another, "You
just disrespected me and that's not acceptable to me. If you don't respect me,
I won't spend time with you anymore." Can you say that, and mean it? Can
you turn your back on someone who's clearly shown that they don't respect you?
Once you do, you'll feel your sense of self-respect and you level of confidence
would accelerate, trust me.
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